Explaining Different Group Sex Options

There is a wide world of potential sexy fun with multiple partners. It is full of excitement with countless opportunities for people to live out all of their different group sex fantasies.


Choosing the right group sex option for you can make the difference between having an experience you’d rather forget and an experience that you will forever look back at with a huge smile on your face!

To help you decide what is the best match for your own person situation, we’ll explain different kinds of group sex experiences you can enjoy and what you can expect from each.


We’ll also share some tips to help your experience be as smooth and enjoyable as possible. Now get comfortable, we’re about to go down the rabbit hole.


Threesome Sex

This is one of the most well known group sex options. A threesome is simply three people having sex with each other at the same time. Since at least two of the three people will be the same sex, it often (but not always) involves some bisexual or homosexual action.


A threesome can come about in many different ways. It could be three single people deciding to enjoy something extra special together. More often it is a couple that decides to spice up their sex life with a new playmate (either a stranger or a friend). It is important that all of the people involved are well prepared for the encounter. Each person is unique and may have their own rules, likes and dislikes that need to be taken into consideration before the threesome actually happens.


Threesomes give those involved an opportunity to experience new sexual dynamics, such as performing oral sex while being penetrated or double penetration. Threesomes can deliver pleasurable experiences that simply can’t be created with only two people.


Tip: You have a right not to feel pressured into doing something that you don’t want to do when having a threesome. In the same way, you shouldn’t pressure someone else to do something that they don’t feel comfortable doing.

Remember that the rules, likes and dislikes that you set at the beginning are not set in stone. If anyone is uncomfortable for any reason they can stop and remove themselves from the situation.


Group Sex

Any sex involving more than two people is group sex but more often people are referring to four or more people all enjoying a sexy play session together. Both singles and couples are welcome to get involved and the swapping of play partners multiple times in a session is common. These kinds of encounters often take place at swinger clubs or can be arranged privately too. You are likely to get the opportunity to find more sexy house parties on the swinger dating sites.


A smart way to arrange a group sex encounter is by first building up individual connections with multiple partners and then arranging a meet where those partners have the opportunity to see if they click. Once the green light is given by everyone, it can be as simple as inviting everyone who wants to be involved to a single location and enjoying the night! It’s worth remembering that the same approach should apply to group sex encounters as threesomes: set your rules beforehand, make sure everyone understands and agrees and then you’re set.


Tip: Group sex brings with it a higher potential danger of sexually transmitted infections (STIs) as more people are involved. To better protect everyone, condoms should always be changed when any partners are changed for a safer sex experience. It is also wise to only invite swingers you already know and have discussed their STI testing with instead of inviting unscreened strangers to join. To keep the fun times rolling along in a safe manner, bring along plenty of condoms, latex gloves, lube, & dental dams so there is more than enough for everyone to play safely.

Gang Bangs

Popularised by pornographic movies, gangbangs are another form of group sex that is growing in popularity. This type of encounter gives one lady the opportunity to have many, many men during an extended, often exhaustive, play session.


The lady can enjoy the men individually, one after another, or she can enjoy several of them together. She can have one man pay attention to her top half and another man pay attention to her bottom half. You can be creative and see how many men can be involved at the same time.

Some gangbangs involve bukkake. That is when the men participating in the gangbang will ejaculate on her. Often, this is on her face but it can be wherever she directs it to be. With many, many men ejaculating you can imagine it can become quite a sticky scene.


Tip: This can be a very intense experience, so it is helpful to arrange a safeword the lady can use that will pause or permanently stop the action if it becomes too much for her. Due to the nature of this particular type of sexual activity, it is very important that everyone is fully aware at all times about the rules that have been set. Be sensitive, play safe!


Bonus Tips For All Group Play

Boundaries:

These sexual group fantasies can be very exciting but it is important to set boundaries to keep the experience safe and manageable. That ensures people have clear understanding of what you do and don’t like. Also, make sure to ask about and respect other people’s boundaries, as everyone is different. Allow everyone to be who they are, don’t force them to be what you want.


Safeword:

Having a safe word (a designated code word of your choosing) that indicates that you want the play to stop straightaway can prove vital when it comes to damage control. Nothing in life is perfect and mistakes can happen. You might feel sure you are comfortable with something right up to the second you discover you aren’t. No one wants things to go south but if it looks like things are heading in that direction, use the safeword. Safer to take a break and restart later than going past anyone’s comfort level.


Go slow:

There is no need to rush into a hardcore gangbang or even a casual threesome if you’ve never experienced any form of group sex before. In fact, going too fast will probably do you more harm than good. Ease yourself into these forms of sexual pleasure. If you are unsure, you can experiment with simply having a group kissing or touching session without any sex. It may be tempting to jump into the deep end but you have plenty of time to slowly ease into it and reduce the chances of mistakes happening.


Be Prepared for Awkwardness:

Group sex looks awesome on porn because they edit out the awkwardness that often pops up. With so many flailing arms & legs so close to each other, people can become a little twisted. Trying to choreograph some of these group positions can lead to someone accidentally slipping and grab the wrong body part. Don’t be surprised, that is simply real life and not some fake manufactured porn clip.


Talk with your partner to figure out what you both want. Savour the opportunity to have lots of fun with people who also want to explore group sex. Take it slowly, soak in the experience, and be respectful at all times.

Have fun and be safe.

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