Intimacy is about more than just sex; giving your partner a relaxing sensual massage at home is a great way to connect and tighten the bond you share together. With the right setting and erotic massage techniques, it can guarantee a very happy ending for all participants.
The Art of Ambiance Creation for Erotic Massages
Preparing the massage area will lead to uninterrupted experiences and maximum relaxation overall. Here are a few steps to consider:
Set Up the Massage Area:
Designate a quiet, clutter-free, calming area of your home for the massage. Set the room temperature to your liking, adding some candles or low lighting to set the mood.
Add Relaxing Sounds: Soothing soft music, harmonic frequencies or nature sounds activate the senses and enhance your massage techniques.
Don’t Forget the Essentials: As with most play times, the right tools are important such as oils, lotions and candles. Oils and creams comes in all type of heating, cooling and scented versions and there are even some soy-based candles that are known to emit pheromone-inciting scents.
Massage Technique Tips
Hitting all the areas of the body is essential for your erotic massage as the skin is the largest and most sensitive organ of the body. You’ll want to use gentle, even pressure strokes taking care to be mindful of how your partner is responding.
Here are some additional tips:
Get Into a Steady Flow:
Start with the head and face, working your way down to the neck and shoulders, arms and hands, and then move to his/her back. Don’t hesitate to gently whisper “sweet nothings” to them as you stroke them into relaxation. Be sure to “touch up” on all the key areas.
Stimulate Partners Primary Erogenous Zones:
Spend some time on your partner’s genitalia adding more oil/lotion and evened pressured strokes to the massage. Be cautious and try not to allow any sort of indulgent release until you deem the time perfect.
Pay Attention to the Secondary Erogenous Zones:
Areas that are rarely touched include the hands, earlobes, wrists, and the front and backs of the knees. These parts can be highly stimulating when gently touched or rubbed and this can be a good time to employ soft ticklers like feathers or soft leather tools.
Don’t spend too much time second guessing your techniques. With the right tools on hand and a consistent approach, your partner’s body will respond to your touch — creating pleasure and enhanced arousal levels. Remember, desire and passion are the keys to an erotic massage which is perfect for couples looking to reconnect.