Frequently Asked Questions

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Anyone wishing to attend our events at The Lifestyle Lodge will need to meet a criteria that reassures all our guests that they are meeting people who are active within the swinging lifestyle and have displayed a minimum level of swinging lifestyle etiquette. You will need to inform us of any profiles & usernames you have on sites like Spicy Match, Fab Swingers, Pineapple App or Fetlife as this will help you in being able to attend our parties. You will need a minimum of 2 meeting verifications from sites like Fab Swingers. If you do not have any of the above this lesser your chances to be able to attend. Our attending system helps us to maintain an even gender balance and ensures verified and respectful, etiquette savvy lifestylers from various scenes can attend our events.. We also ask all guests attending to bring a form of photo I.D that will be checked against the details you give here as an added security measure. All our regular guests place faith in us to ensure that only vetted & verified guests from the lifestyle attend our events. The Playgrounds parties & events are for couples, transgender guests and verified, singles ladies and gents unless otherwise stated. Limited single verified gents are permitted to attend where stated. ATTENDING: Please contact us with your email address if you would like to attend All our parties and events are strictly GUEST LIST ONLY. Please ensure you include the name to match the one on the guest list you wish to use to gain entry. Please bring a copy of your receipt when you attend. After your attendance has been confirmed you will then be emailed a party confirmation a week before the event. The confirmation will include the full address for the party as well as additional details about the event, eg: arrival times etc

We require verification to ensure that all attendees are vouched for by others in the lifestyle community. Platforms like Fetlife, Spicy Match, Fab Swingers, Social Swing, Pineapple app, and Swinghub app allow users to create profiles and verify each other after meeting. This process helps us confirm that you understand and respect the etiquette of the swinging lifestyle. You can find us on these and other lifestyle websites. If you have any questions, feel free to contact us here.

Yes, you can attend if you are a couple, single lady, transgender, or single gent. However, we will need some additional information from you, such as your full name(s) and recent face picture(s), along with a brief summary of why you wish to attend our lifestyle parties. This helps us ensure that you are who you say you are and that you are attending for the right reasons.

We have always encouraged new couples, single ladies and transgender guests, who are new to this lifestyle, to attend our parties and events. We can ensure you that we operate NO pressure, NO obligation policy at our parties and events, along with a simple NO means NO rule. If you are new to the scene, please don't hesitate to contact us about attending, concerns, issues or questions, we are here to help.

Attendance at our events can vary depending on the time of year, weather, and financial climate. On average, we have at least 40 to 50 guests at our events. Please note, we will never run an event with fewer than 30 guests.

We always say that all guests should bring there own condoms and lube to our parties as we cannot ensure we have spare supplies.

No, sex is not guaranteed at our parties. It only occurs between consenting adults who are mutually attracted to each other. We always advise new guests to attend with zero expectations.

All our parties are strictly prepaying ticket/guest list only. We cater to couples, single ladies, and a select number of single guys. Here are the basic rules and etiquette to ensure everyone has a fabulous night: 1. You MUST book and buy your ticket in advance. This helps us maintain a good balance between couples and singles for everyone's enjoyment. 2. If you're not on our guest list, you could be refused entry. 3. No recording equipment, including mobile phones, is allowed in the venue. You can ask a staff member to monitor your phone if you're expecting an important call. 4. Excessive drinking or drug use is not tolerated. You may be refused entry or asked to leave if found under the influence. 5. Always ask for permission before touching or joining anyone. Even in open areas, consent is required. 6. Previous play does not imply future permission. Always confirm consent on each occasion. 7. No means NO. If asked to stop, do so immediately without explanation. 8. Safe sex is your responsibility. We expect all gentlemen to wear protection unless otherwise agreed. 9. Be mindful of others wanting to use play areas. Clean up after yourself and report any issues to staff. 10. Report any complaints about other guests to a staff member immediately. 11. We have a ZERO tolerance policy on drugs. Anyone found under the influence will be removed permanently. 12. Smoking is only permitted in designated areas outside the venue. Remember, sexual harassment laws apply inside the venue. Failure to follow these rules may result in permanent removal. The management reserves the right to change these rules without notice.

When you arrive, please have your profile username or guest list name ready, along with photo ID so we can confirm your booking. If you can’t provide photo ID, you may be refused entry. For dress, we encourage you to match the party theme if you’d like, but it isn’t essential. Otherwise, go for smart and sexy. Please avoid trainers, T-shirts, ripped jeans, sportswear and hoodies, as you could be turned away if you don’t make the effort.

This can vary depending on the venue and the event, so we always recommend checking the event details before you attend. We cannot guarantee that food, drinks, or refreshments will be available, so it is best to come prepared. If you have any specific needs, feel free to contact us before booking.

Consent is at the heart of everything we do. No means no, every time, and that applies to every interaction at our events. Guests are expected to be respectful, check in with each other clearly, and stop immediately if anyone changes their mind. We want everyone to feel safe, relaxed, and able to enjoy the night at their own pace.

Travel details can vary by event, but ticket holders receive the full venue address and arrival information in advance. If you are driving, we recommend checking your route before you leave and planning ahead for local parking or nearby drop-off points. If you need help with travel plans, please contact us before the event and we will do our best to point you in the right direction.

To request tickets for an event at The Playgrounds, you need to visit our official website and navigate to the specific event page you are interested in. Each event will have detailed information about the ticket types, availability, and pricing. You can submit a ticket request through the online form provided on the event page, ensuring you fill out all required fields accurately, including your contact information and any preferences or questions you may have. Requests are reviewed promptly, and you will receive a confirmation email with payment instructions and event details once your request is approved. Because our events cater to a niche community focused on non-monogamy swinging and LGBT lifestyle experiences, ticket availability can be limited to maintain an exclusive and comfortable atmosphere, so we encourage early requests. If you need assistance or have specific inquiries, our customer support team is available to help via the contact information on our website.

If your plans change, please contact us as soon as you can. If you’re running late, let us know too, and we’ll tell you the best next step for that event.Please be aware that we have a non refundable and non transferable policy on all our tickets.

Guests attending The Playgrounds events can find a variety of accommodation options nearby to complement their experience. Many prefer staying at boutique hotels and guesthouses located within a short distance of the event venues, offering privacy and easy access. Additionally, there are several well-rated Airbnb rentals and private apartments available for those seeking a more personalised and discreet stay. We recommend booking accommodations in advance to secure the best locations and rates, ensuring you have a comfortable and convenient base to relax before and after enjoying our lifestyle parties and events.

At The Playgrounds, guests are encouraged to dress in a way that reflects their personal style while respecting the alternative and inclusive nature of our swinging and LGBT lifestyle events.Attire should be tasteful, expressive, and aligned with the event’s theme, often leaning towards stylish, fashionable, and comfortable outfits that foster a welcoming atmosphere. Many attendees choose smart casual or evening wear with a creative or edgy twist, incorporating elements such as lingerie, leather, or other lifestyle-inspired garments. It is important to avoid overly casual clothing like sportswear or streetwear, and clothing must comply with our venue’s standards for hygiene and decency. Ultimately, your attire should enhance your confidence and comfort while honoring the open-minded ethos of The Playgrounds community.

We at The Playgrounds, protecting your privacy is our highest priority. We understand the sensitive nature of non-monogamy and LGBT lifestyle events, so we have implemented strict measures to safeguard your personal information. All guest details are encrypted and stored securely. We never share your information with third parties, and our event check-ins are discreet to maintain anonymity. Communication is handled through confidential channels, and photography or recording at events is tightly controlled to ensure that your participation remains private and comfortable. Trust us to create a safe, respectful environment where you can enjoy the experience confidently and without concern.

At any Playgrounds party or event, guest privacy and discretion are paramount due to the personal and sensitive nature of our non-monogamy swinging and LGBT lifestyle events. For this reason, photography and videography are strictly prohibited unless expressly authorised by event staff. While using your phone for calls or messaging is permitted, we ask that you keep devices on silent mode and avoid taking photos or videos to ensure the comfort and confidentiality of all attendees. This policy helps maintain a safe, respectful environment where guests can fully enjoy their experience without concerns about unwanted exposure or privacy breaches. If you have any specific questions about media use at an event, please contact our team directly before attending.