The XY Club Daytime:
Many have asked "What is the XY Club Daytimes"
Simply put its a regular mid week event that is held every other week from 11am till 4pm aimed at bi/gay/trans, t-girls and admirers that want to meet, mix and play with like minded others.

DATES FOR YOUR DIARY:-
* XY CLUB Daytime: Wed 8th Oct 11am till 4pm.
* XY CLUB Daytime: Wed 22nd Oct 11am till 4pm.
* XY CLUB Daytime: Wed 5th Nov 11am till 4pm.
* XY CLUB Daytime: Wed 19th Nov 11am till 4pm.
Set in a spacious private home aka The Lifestyle Lodge near Burton-on-Trent, The XYC is a new midweek daytime event designed for like-minded, verified guests who wish to meet, socialise, mingle, and, if they choose too, play—within a safe, discreet, and non-judgmental environment.
The large four-bedroom house and gardens, also know as THE LIFESTYLE LODGE, provide a welcoming, intimate atmosphere where you can truly be yourself.
Discretion and privacy are always paramount.
A contribution will be required to attend events. Please message for the contribution price or go to our Contribution Request Form.
Our parties will always welcome new people who wish to discover more, and who are looking to become part of the lifestyle scene.
KEY DETAILS:
* Held every other Wednesday, 11:00 AM – 4:00 PM
* Contribution: Message for details.
* No membership required (Conditions apply)
* Bring your own alcohol (soft drinks and mixers available for a contribution)
* Snacks provided
* Bathroom changing area available.
* Photo/video/content options available.
* Storage of clothes, wigs, make up available for regular guests.
* Arrange your personal meets via The XY Club
PHOTO/VIDEO/CONTENT SHOOTS:
Looking to create high-quality, discreet photos or videos without the stress of doing it yourself?
The XY Club at The Lifestyle Lodge—an LGBTQI+ safe haven and inclusive sanctuary, we offer a relaxed and supportive environment where your photos can be taken for you, directly on your own device.
Perfect for use on FabGuys and other platforms, while ensuring your privacy is fully respected.
For further details, please feel free to get in touch.
ABOUT YOUR HOST:
I am an experienced lifestyle host with over a decade of creating, running, and hosting parties and events in clubs, venues, and private homes under the banner of The Playgrounds Lifestyle Parties & Events.
Established more than ten years ago, The Playgrounds Parties & Events/The XY Club is dedicated to delivering high-quality, safe, and enjoyable adult gatherings designed for like-minded, vetted guests who wish to meet, mingle, and celebrate within the lifestyle community.
At every event, we strive to foster a relaxed and welcoming atmosphere where guests feel secure, respected, and free to be themselves without judgment. Participation is always optional, and our no-pressure-to-play policy ensures everyone can enjoy the experience at their own pace.
We actively promote a safe sex policy at all of our parties and events.
THE LIFESTYLE LODGE (South Derbyshire)
This large secluded 4 bed house discreetly hidden away from any neighbours or prying eyes ensuring your safety and privacy and comfortably hosting up to 50 to 60 guests. A large discreet garden ensures any summer fun can extend outside.
All of our parties and events are designed to provide a safe, secure, discreet, and welcoming environment where you can relax, be yourself without judgment, and connect with like-minded people from the lifestyle community.
DRINKS:
The Lifestyle Lodge parties are bring your own booze. Soft/mixer drinks available from us for a small contribution.
HOTELS:
There are several reasonably priced hotels in the surrounding area, one is very close to The Lifestyle Lodge house.
DRESS CODE:
We always encourage guests to dress smart and sexy.
No trainers, t-shirts, blue jeans, sportswear, or hoodies.
If no effort is made to dress appropriately then this means you could be turned away.
Personal hygiene is paramount within the lifestyle so please ensure this when attending.
PARTY FEATURES at THE LIFESTYLE LODGE
* Bring Your Own Alcohol.
* No membership required.
* All guests verified.
* 3 themed playrooms.
* The Black & White Room.
* The Blue Room.
* The Red Boudoir.
* The Backlash Bar.
* Hot tub area.
* 2 x toilet.
* Bathroom.
* 5 hrs of party fun.
* 1 x Open fire lounge.
* Dance/social area.
* Buffet.
* BBQs (Spring/Summer).
* Music.
* Large garden areas.
* Covered smoking area.
* Nearest hotel 50 yards away.
SOME BASIC RULES.
The XY Club/The Playgrounds operate a NO means NO policy, in a no pressure, no obligation environment. We expect all our guests to ALWAYS display a basic lifestyle etiquette, along with a high level of personal hygiene within the house.
We promote a safe sex policy at all our parties & events.
Strictly no use of mobile phones within the house, also no pictures/filming unless permission is given.
No smoking in any areas of the house, only in designated smoking areas.
Failure to comply with The XY Club/ The Playgrounds house rules will result in you being told to leave.
The XY Club/ Playgrounds have a zero tolerance drugs policy, any person found using, distributing, or taking drugs will be removed from the houses. This will also affect your attendance at any future XY Club/Playgrounds events.



