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Maybe you have been in the swingers lifestyle for a while and have stuck with inviting a single for a threesome. Maybe you have been dedicated to only couple swapping and are ready to add a few more players to the game. However, group sessions are a bit different than couple swapping or chasing unicorns. So, if the time has arrived to take playtime to greater heights of pleasure and exploration with group play, you’ll want to read on.

Have an Open and Honest Talk

There’s no denying that a lack of solid communication can lead to serious problems or even the end of a relationship. When dealing with a group scenario, couples need to discuss the rules and limitations that will be in place during playtime sessions where there are a number of people present. Discuss and agree on some rules, so you’ll be prepared to navigate any questionable situations that arise in the course of the experience.

Agree On Safe Words

Safe words are useful in times beyond bondage and kink, and they can have a huge impact on how a group swingers session goes. Find a few words to speak to each other to indicate levels of discomfort with a situation. However, there also should be a few ‘heat it up’ words that give each other permission to step outside of their predetermined rules and go forth with their fantasies. You just never know what may happen, and it’s okay to change your mind!

Decide On a Venue

Maybe a private party, like the ones at The Secret Lounge or another swinger’s house that you already know can help you ease into warming up to other guests (and potential playmates!). Maybe you want to hit up a swingers club that has themed rooms geared for group sex. These are great ways to meet up with people you may have met online and want to meet-and-greet in a public place.

Feeling really adventurous? Check out a lifestyle resort or cruise, where everyone will have different interests and levels of comfort when it comes to swinging. Maybe you’ve wanted to hit up a sex party for a while, but you aren’t sure where to go. Most big cities have get-togethers and clubs that cater to multiple price points and sexualities, and plenty host special events or parties for first timers.

Be Mindful of Hygiene & Dress

With a location and date set, be ready to impress by taking extra time in the hygiene department. Groom those privates, wear small amounts of fragrances, and get those teeth extra clean. Speaking of hygiene, don’t forget to bring condoms and a clean sex toy if you like. Dress in something sexy or that shows off your best features. Many clubs and parties have a dress code, and many have themed costume gatherings.

There are typically plenty of places to get your feet—and other parts wet—in or near your location for couple swapping and group play. There are swingers clubs, cruises, resorts, private parties and countless ways to hook up with like-minded people online for group play. Take these tips and prepare for a whole new experience in the swingers lifestyle with group sex!

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