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Updated: Sep 14, 2023

Author: The Playgrounds

Non-monogamy, which can take various forms such as polyamory, open relationships, or swinging, involves consensually engaging in romantic or sexual relationships with multiple partners.

Parties or social gatherings within non-monogamous communities can be fun and enjoyable when everyone involved follows safe and respectful practices. Here are some guidelines to ensure safety and respect at non-monogamy parties:


Consent is paramount. Always seek explicit, enthusiastic consent from all parties involved before engaging in any sexual activity or even initiating a conversation of a sexual nature.

Open Communication:

Effective and open communication is essential. Discuss boundaries, expectations, and desires with your partners and potential partners before attending the party. Make sure everyone is on the same page.

Safe Sex:

Use barrier methods (condoms, dental dams, etc.) and practice safe sex consistently to prevent the transmission of sexually transmitted infections (STIs). Carry your own supplies and insist on their use.


Regular STI testing and sharing results can help create a safer environment. Be willing to discuss your testing history and encourage others to do the same.

Honesty and Transparency:

Be honest about your relationship status and intentions. If you are not seeking a committed relationship or if you're looking for a casual encounter, communicate that clearly.

Respect Boundaries:

Respect the boundaries and rules set by each individual or couple. These boundaries may differ from person to person, so always ask and never assume.

Safe Space:

Ensure that the party or event is held in a safe and welcoming environment where all participants feel comfortable expressing their desires and boundaries.


Maintain good personal hygiene and cleanliness, particularly if you anticipate engaging in sexual activity. Shower and use appropriate protection.

Alcohol and Drugs:

Be mindful of alcohol and drug consumption. These substances can impair judgment and consent. If you choose to use them, do so responsibly.


Periodically check in with your partners and playmates to ensure they are comfortable and enjoying themselves. It's essential to maintain open lines of communication during any sexual encounter.

Safe Transport:

Plan ahead for safe transportation to and from the party, especially if you anticipate drinking. Consider using rideshare services or having a designated driver.

No Pressure:

Avoid pressuring anyone into any activity they are not comfortable with. Respect their decisions and boundaries, even if they change during the course of the party.

Privacy and Discretion:

Respect people's privacy and discretion regarding their non-monogamous lifestyle. Not everyone may be open about their relationships, so avoid gossip or outing anyone.

Emotional Support:

Be prepared to offer emotional support and understanding. Non-monogamous relationships can be complex, and participants may need to discuss their feelings during or after the party.

Boundaries in Public:

Remember that public displays of affection (PDA) or explicit discussions may not be appropriate in all settings. Be aware of your surroundings and the comfort levels of others.

Non-monogamous parties should prioritize the comfort, safety, and consent of all participants.

Establishing trust and open communication among attendees is key to ensuring everyone has a positive and respectful experience.

Always be respectful of others' choices and feelings, and be prepared to adjust your behaviour or leave the situation if someone is uncomfortable.

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