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THE XY CLUB DAYTIME
Dates for The XY Club:
* Wednesday 19th November 2025 - 11am till 4pm - £20.00 per person
* Wednesday 03rd December 2025 - 11am till 4pm - £20.00 per person
* Wednesday 17th December 2025 - 11am till 4pm - £20.00 per person
* More dates for 2026 to be added soon ....
WELCOME TO THE XY CLUB
This new exciting daytime event is aimed at bisexual/gay men, femboys, subs, cissys, TVs, TSs, CDs and bi-curious men.
Located in a spacious private home near Burton-on-Trent, The XY Club is a new midweek daytime event designed for like-minded, verified guests who wish to meet, socialise, mingle, and, if they choose, play—within a safe, discreet, and non-judgmental environment.
Our large four-bedroom house and gardens provide a welcoming, intimate atmosphere where you can truly be yourself.
Discretion and privacy are always paramount.
The intention and idea of The XY Club is too offer a safer and more enjoyable environment as an alternative to chance encounters in cars, lay-bys, or other risky locations.
Event Details:
* Held every other Wednesday, 11:00 AM – 4:00 PM
* For bisexual/gay men, transexuals, t-girls, transvestites, crossdressers
* Contribution: £20.00 per person (to cover costs)
* Bring your own alcohol (soft drinks and mixers available to purchase at a small charge)
* Snacks provided
* Bathroom changing area available.
PHOTO SHOOTS/CONTENT CREATION:
Looking to create high-quality, discreet photos or videos without the stress of doing it yourself?
The XY Club at The Lifestyle Lodge—an LGBTQI+ inclusive sanctuary, we offer a relaxed and supportive environment where your photos can be taken for you, directly on your own device. Perfect for use on Fab Guys or any other platform, while ensuring your privacy is fully respected.
A small contribution is welcomed to support the service.
For further details, please feel free to get in touch.
ABOUT US:
I am an experienced lifestyle host with over a decade of creating, running, and hosting parties and events in clubs, venues, and private homes under the banner of The Playgrounds Lifestyle Parties & Events.
Established more than ten years ago, The Playgrounds Parties & Events is dedicated to delivering high-quality, safe, and enjoyable adult gatherings—often themed—designed for like-minded, verified guests who wish to meet, mingle, and celebrate within the lifestyle community.
At every event, we strive to foster a relaxed and welcoming atmosphere where guests feel secure, respected, and free to be themselves without judgment. Participation is always optional, and our no-pressure-to-play policy ensures everyone can enjoy the experience at their own pace.
We actively promote a safe sex policy at all of our parties and events.
Please note: All events are strictly pre-paid ticket only. Tickets are non-refundable and non-transferable.
WHO CAN ATTEND OUR PLAYGROUNDS PARTIES
The Lifestyle Lodge parties cater for couples, single ladies, *single gents and Transgender guests.
*We do allow an amount of single, verified gents to attend, who have demonstrated the Lifestyle etiquette.
We have a no pressure, no obligation to play policy at all our events.
THE LIFESTYLE LODGE (South Derbyshire)
This large secluded 4 bed house discreetly hidden away from any neighbours or prying eyes ensuring your safety and privacy and comfortably hosting up to 50 to 60 guests. A large discreet garden ensures any summer fun can extend outside.
At our parties, we warmly welcome guests of all ages, backgrounds, body types, and sexualities—unless otherwise specified.
Our ticket pricing is fair and transparent, with a single set price per person regardless of gender.
To attend, guests must have a minimum of two recent verifications or have previously attended one of our events.
We are always delighted to welcome newcomers who are curious about the lifestyle and wish to explore more. Our dedicated team ensures every new guest feels supported, helping to ease nerves, make introductions, and create a comfortable and enjoyable experience.
All of our parties and events are designed to provide a safe, secure, discreet, and welcoming environment where you can relax, be yourself without judgment, and connect with like-minded people from the lifestyle community.
DRINKS:
The Lifestyle Lodge parties are bring your own booze. Soft/mixer drinks are available from us for a small contribution.
HOTELS:
There are several reasonably priced hotels in the surrounding area, one is very close to The Lifestyle Lodge house.
Please message us for details about local hotels close to The Lifestyle Lodge parties.
DRESS CODE:
We always encourage guests to dress smart and sexy.
No trainers, t-shirts, blue jeans, sportswear, or hoodies. If no effort is made to dress appropriately then this means you could be turned away.
Personal hygiene is paramount within the lifestyle so please ensure this when attending.
PARTY FEATURES at THE LIFESTYLE LODGE
* Bring Your Own Alcohol.
* No membership required.
* All guests verified.
* 3 themed playrooms.
* The Black & White Room.
* The Blue Room.
* The Red Boudoir.
* The Backlash Bar.
* Hot tub area.
* 2 x toilet.
* Bathroom.
* 6 hrs of party fun.
* 1 x Open fire lounge.
* Dance/social area.
* Buffet.
* BBQs (Spring/Summer).
* Music.
* Large garden areas.
* Covered smoking area.
* Nearest hotel 50 yards away.
SOME BASIC RULES
The Playgrounds operate a NO means NO policy, in a no pressure, no obligation environment. We expect all our guests to ALWAYS display a basic lifestyle etiquette, along with a high level of personal hygiene within the house.
We promote a safe sex policy at all our parties & events.
Strictly no use of mobile phones within the house, also no pictures/filming unless permission is given.
No smoking in any areas of the house, only in designated smoking areas.
Failure to comply with The XY Club/ Playgrounds house rules will result in you being told to leave.
The XY Club/ Playgrounds have a zero tolerance drugs policy, any person found using, distributing, or taking drugs will be removed from the houses. This will also affect your attendance at any future XY Club/Playgrounds events.
